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Do These 10 Things to Foster Good Communication Between You and Your Teenage Son

Updated: May 2, 2023

10 Ways to Foster Good Communicating between you and Your Teenage Son


Teenagers are hard. Hard to understand, and hard to communicate with. As a parent, fostering good communication habits with your teenage son is crucial. Having an open and honest relationship with your child can help you understand their thoughts, emotions, and behaviors.



Here are ten ways to foster good communication habits between you and your teenage son.


1. Listen actively

The first step to having good communication with your teenage son is to actively listen to him. Pay attention to what he is saying and show interest in his thoughts and opinions. Avoid interrupting him or dismissing his ideas.


2. Be non-judgmental

It's important to create a safe and non-judgmental space for your teenage son to express his thoughts and emotions. Avoid making assumptions or jumping to conclusions about his behavior.


3. Show empathy

Empathy is the ability to understand and share the feelings of another person. Showing empathy to your teenage son can help him feel understood and valued. Try to put yourself in his shoes and understand his perspective.


4. Use positive reinforcement

Positive reinforcement is the act of rewarding desirable behavior. Praising your teenage son for good behavior can encourage him to continue that behavior in the future.


5. Create a daily routine

Having a daily routine can help you and your teenage son stay connected. Whether it's eating dinner together or going for a walk, find a regular activity you both enjoy and make it a habit.


6. Avoid distractions

When you're talking to your teenage son, avoid distractions like phones or TV. Give him your full attention and show him that you value the conversation.


7. Respect his boundaries

Teenagers need their privacy and independence. Respect your teenage son's boundaries and avoid prying into his personal life unless he willingly shares it with you.


8. Stay calm

It's normal to feel frustrated or angry with your teenage son, but staying calm can help you communicate more effectively. Take a deep breath and approach the conversation with a level head.


9. Use humor

Humor can be a great way to diffuse tense situations and make your teenage son feel more comfortable. Use humor when appropriate to lighten the mood and make him feel at ease.


10. Practice active problem-solving

When your teenage son comes to you with a problem, practice active problem-solving. Instead of giving him a solution, guide him through the process of finding a solution himself. This can help him develop critical thinking and problem-solving skills.


Fostering good communication habits with your teenage son takes time and effort. That does not mean you should start when he becomes a teenager. For these suggestions to be effective, you must begin with these tips from early childhood and continue into adolescence. Starting early makes it easier when they begin their teenage journey. However, it is never too late to start.


By actively listening, showing empathy, using positive reinforcement, and staying calm, you can build a strong and positive relationship with your teenage son. Remember to respect his boundaries and use humor when appropriate, and practice active problem-solving to help him develop important life skills. Find out more in my book Parent Peace: Communicating with Your Teenage Son


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